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Burnout in High-Achieving Couples: When Work Stress Enters the Relationship
You’re competent. Capable. Responsible. You manage demanding careers. You solve problems all day. You handle pressure well. So it can feel confusing when your relationship begins to feel strained. Conversations become shorter. Patience wears thin. Small disagreements escalate quickly — or get avoided altogether. You tell yourself it’s just a busy season. But over time, the distance grows. How Work Stress Impacts Relationships Stress changes how we show up emotionally. When yo
Shahrzad Jamali
Mar 162 min read


Burnout in High-Achieving Professionals: Why It Happens (And How to Recover Without Losing Your Edge)
On the outside, you look successful. You meet deadlines. You solve complex problems. You carry responsibility well. People rely on you. But internally, something feels off. You’re exhausted — even after a weekend off. You can’t relax without feeling guilty. Your mind rarely shuts down. And the idea of slowing down makes you anxious, not relieved. If this sounds familiar, you’re not weak — and you’re not alone. This is often how burnout shows up in high-achieving professionals
Shahrzad Jamali
Feb 243 min read


Fight, Flight, or Freeze: Why Your Body Reacts Before You Can Think
Have you ever snapped in traffic and wondered, “Why did I react like that?” Or felt completely frozen after an accident, unable to move or speak? Or noticed that anger seems to come out of nowhere—faster than your rational mind can keep up? These reactions are not character flaws. They are survival responses. Our nervous system is designed to protect us. When it senses danger—real or perceived—it automatically shifts into fight, flight, or freeze mode. This happens in millise
Shahrzad Jamali
Jan 194 min read


ICBC Direct Billing for Counselling and Neurofeedback in Langley, BC
How Counselling Helps After a Car Accident After an accident, many people experience symptoms of trauma, stress, or anxiety, even if the physical injuries have healed. Counselling offers a safe and supportive space to process what happened and restore a sense of safety and balance. Through trauma-informed approaches such as AEDP, EMDR, or somatic therapy, counselling can help you: Reduce anxiety, panic, or emotional overwhelm Process intrusive memories and flashbacks Improve
Shahrzad Jamali
Oct 31, 20252 min read


Emotional Exhaustion and Burnout: The Hidden Hangover of Holding It All Together
When You’re Tired Before the Day Even Starts You wake up tired — not because you didn’t sleep, but because you’ve been holding it all...
Shahrzad Jamali
Oct 8, 20253 min read


Fear of Conflict in Relationships: How Avoidance Protects and Hurts Your Connection
Why Conflict in Relationships Feels So Threatening At its core, fear of conflict is rarely about the argument itself. It’s about what...
Shahrzad Jamali
Oct 1, 20253 min read


Why Couples Fight About the Same Things and How to Break the Cycle
Do You Feel Stuck in the Same Argument With Your Partner? Have you ever felt like your relationship arguments are on repeat? Maybe it...
Shahrzad Jamali
Sep 18, 20254 min read


Grief Is the Last Act of Love We Can Give
“Where there is deep grief, there was great love.” Grief is one of the most profound experiences we can face. It is the last act of love...
Shahrzad Jamali
Aug 8, 20253 min read


Benefits of Neuroptimal® Neurofeedback for Anxiety, Sleep, and Focus
How NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback Supports a Calmer, More Balanced Brain Your brain is a powerful and intricate system. It not only keeps...
Shahrzad Jamali
Jul 4, 20253 min read


Understanding and Managing Emotions: A Healthier Perspective
We often categorize emotions as either positive (e.g., happiness, hope, compassion) or negative (e.g., loneliness, resentment, jealousy)....
Shahrzad Jamali
Feb 19, 20254 min read


How to Prepare for your First Counselling Session
If you’ve never been to therapy before, you might feel nervous or anxious before your first session. This is a very common experience for...
Shahrzad Jamali
Jan 8, 20245 min read
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